Two friends were on a bike early in the morning. They were
rushing towards the Y K M Hospital on the other part of city- their friend from
their native place was battling some head injuries suffered last night in a
drink and drive situation. Though the guy in the driver’s seat stopped at a
traffic signal, he was itching to jump the signal after carefully noticing no
traffic cops on either side of the road, the time being early in the morning.
The friend in the pillion objected to it strongly. An argument ensued. The
driver guy was trying to justify breaking the rule only once for the sake of
their dear friend who is in dire need of blood which can be ensured on them
reaching the hospital early. The other person stood his ground and refused to
ride along and make other arrangements in case the signal is jumped. While it
might not cause any danger to anyone for them to break the rules in that
instance, it would set up a wrong notion and example to everyone else stopping
in the light. Their value system, their education, their upbringing – all would be questioned in people’s mind and someone else somewhere repeating the act
might end up taking someone else’s life. In the middle of the continued
argument, the onward signal became green and they moved on.
Is this not a very common sight for all of us?
All of us, committing a wrong thing or felony only once, will
collectively add up to a large number of such cases putting the society in
danger and push it one more step towards peril.
Many of us have might have taken help of “someone else”, in
exchange of money, having connections internally in different government
departments in the case of getting a driving license or khata transfer (document
for house mutation). It did not take much of our time to get the things done in
the right and just way when we approached the authorities directly helped with
the much simplified processes put in place along with electronic systems. There
are very many good people inside the system who are ready to help when
approached directly. Another very good example is passport application through
the online appointment system. Right now, that is the only system and we all patiently wait and budget our time in the absence of previously available so-called helps.
With all these, the point I am trying to make is we, the
educated lot of the country, need to be sincere and earnest about zero laxity
towards corruption and rules. Even doing
it once does not justify the cause, rather one becomes the part of them who often take law in their own
hand to curb it the way they liked it -in their own ways.
Let us give it a push at our individual level towards taking
our country out of these menaces. In that way, our hands
will be stronger, our voices will be heard with utmost care before we point fingers to others.
Interesting questions asked on Zero laxity and let's do our bits to become better citizens. Well done, Jayanta and glad to meet you, Champion. Congrats:)
ReplyDeleteThanks, Vishal. It is nice to meet you too. Look forward to many more continued discussions going forward :-).
DeleteVery interesting read on yet another India-theme, Jayanta! Wish many will take you up on that! Well written and super -duper finish of the challenge! Congrats to you! It has been so great to have had your insights and to connect with you. Keep writing:-) All the best
ReplyDeleteDear Eli, I really appreciate your time and kind comments all through last month. I mean it and hope to keep the interactions going on in future..I wish you all the best as well. Do keep in touch. Please read my Y post if possible..
DeleteYou have written a well thought out post! There are instances where many of us saw our comforts before corruption! Glad times are changing and for rich to poor things are becoming equal! Yes we need a strong value system! Congratulations! and a good closure! :)
ReplyDeleteIt is that one wrong act that results in zillion other wrong acts, i believe no matter wha,t bending rules even for just one time should not be acceptable
ReplyDeleteTrue that!! I so agree with that. A small effort everyday by everyone in doing what is right can make a big difference!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations for acing this A to Z challenge, Jayanta and it was good to interact with you through this challenge :)
Very well said Jayanta. You have raised so many issues during this one month challenge. If every one follows all rules, the country will definitely be a winner all the way. Congrats for the successful completion of the challenge.
ReplyDeleterightly put, we are all victims in some way or the other, its time that we take the challenge in our lives to do our bit, in making our country a better place for all of us , thanks for sharing ! congrats !
ReplyDeleteA thought-provoking post, Jayanta. I agree fully with the spirit of the idea/words you share here, and yet there is a little part of me that still wonders if we can or should take an absolute rigid stance over anything. Sometimes for some ends we have to bend the rules (after all rules are also man-made and nothing Supremely Divine about them). Doesn't saving the life of a person become more important than sticking rigidly to a rule? I am not sure what is the right answer or not so right answer in such a situation. Even doctors sometimes bend their or hospital rules in some extremely critical situations. Well,...I shouldn't really go into a discussion here on this. But let me thank you for this very interesting and thoughtfully written post as your last piece for the A-Z challenge. You have given us much to ponder upon in this series. Thank you! And congratulations for completing the challenge so grandly :) Hope to stay connected...
ReplyDeleteDear Beloo, If we start doing "Sometimes for some ends we have to bend the rules", there is no end to it.. Sometimes we need to come out of we, I , us and think about they, them :-). This is my opinion toward this :-).
DeleteHi Jayanta,
ReplyDeleteMy congrats comes first.
You did it well in time,
Nice to meet you in this challenge
Glad that I found another Indian blogger on my run LOL
I fully agree with your points you raised here and at the
same time I partially agree with Beloo Mehra too, what
she said also is correct, yes, sometimes somewhere
some bend is needed but it that is a habitual one then
we are a gone case LOL
Nice post Jayanta
Keep in touch
Best Regards
May you have a Happy Weekend
~Philip
Thanks for your kind opinion. Appreciated.
DeleteThoughtful post . A numerous times in our day to day lives we bend the rules as if it's our right . Hope people understand someday .
ReplyDeleteCongratas on completing the challenge :) Glad to have connected through A-Z .
Thanks, Doctor. It was good to know you as well.
DeleteHey Jayants...
ReplyDeleteyour posts make me think and analyze whether we are doing out bit for the society..
quite thought provoking....
congrats on the successful completion of the challenge,,,
Rules should be the same-- for everyone.
ReplyDeleteDamyanti, My Latest post